0424 20th Anniversary - FINAL_SJM Feature 4 / 26 / 24 3 : 09 PM Page 8 C E L E B R A T I N G T W O D E C A D E S O F S O U T H J E R S E Y M A G A Z I N E back there . ’ But I don't think anybody is opinion , it has to have one flip of the switch 35 . “ But I like true stories and I actually star - struck . They see me in passing and see that you didn’t see coming . And more im - like doing dramatic roles or doing a dramatic me as a neighbor . ” portantly , every story needs an ending . movie and adding a little comedy to it . I ac - Everyone messes up there , you need [ the tually prefer to do that rather than like a 20 . “ I had every job in Ocean City ; my audience ] to know the story is over . I’m straight - out comedy because , for me , I get parents bought a house there while I was in not perfect with coming up with endings , I my fill of comedy through stand - up . And to high school . I worked at The Chatterbox , a acknowledge it . I chew over it like sunflower do a dramatic piece is a nice change for me great place to work . I worked at a couple of seeds nonstop . ” because I’m not a real life - of - the - party type gas stations , one on 34th Street … I worked of guy . I’m not always trying to make people at Watson’s , too . My brother and I probably 28 . “ My favorite songs are ones that laugh . ” spent more time in New Jersey than Philly . speak to the things that we feel in our hearts We’d end up staying up all night , go to the and that we all have in common — songs 36 . “ It’s awesome being married to dunes until 3 a.m . , and then go to work at that relate to the experiences that we all Julie , being able to support the people we six , that’s how you lived . ” share together , the greatest one being love . love doing what they love to do . I’ve seen Some of my favorites are ‘ Love Is a Many all the work she does each and every day 21 . “ I’ve been to places all over the Splendored Thing , ’ ‘ I Only Have Eyes for You , ’ and I’ve seen all the adversity she’s faced world , and our beaches are some of the ‘ When I Fall in Love ’ and especially ‘ Till . ’ ” over the past seven years we’ve been together . most beautiful . ” I’ve seen the injuries . I’ve seen her cry . I’ve 29 . “ It reminds me of when I first saw seen the blood . I’ve seen the tears . Because 22 . “ There was a singing joint , Frank magic and I lost my parents and just that she loves the game , I’m so invested in seeing Sinatra used to perform there [ the Latin moment of forgetting all your problems . her succeed . ” Casino in Cherry Hill ] . I saw Ray Charles there What else is cool is when you are walking when I was 15 . I shouldn’t have gotten in ! I through an airport in a random state and 37 . “ Ialready know I’m living a dream , wore a brown velvet dress and danced on someone says , ‘ Hey , it’s not just the magic , so the appreciation and gratitude are there , the table tops . ” it’s what you say and you are a positive in - and from that , the energy comes . … Nothing fluence for me and my kids . ’ ” wears you out more than when you become 23 . “ You go into these small towns , ungrateful and you don’t want to be where and each one has got its farmer’s market 30 . “ I wake up at 3 a.m . for work . I al - you are . You have no energy , and you start and its coffee shop . What I appreciate the ways think it’s funny that people say someone to feel kind of low . So I’m just going to keep most , I love history , and in Philly and South wakes up ‘ bright and early ’ . . . because in all doing what I love , and it feels so amazing Jersey there is tons of history . You forget actuality when I wake up it’s STILL dark and that I could literally go on forever . ” living out West how old our country is . ” early ! ” 38 . “ Marlton Village , my hand was 24 . “ I’m proud to see whenever someone 31 . “ The first time we played in Cam - shaking , I thought I signed my life away . It . h from the East Coast makes it , especially from den was the first time we knew ‘ Meet was $ 30,000 for a little townhouse , Clincjust k.com South Jersey . ” Virginia ’ had a chance to be a hit . We were starting my annylife . ” rstoc playing at a festival and I remember Dsomeone utte by h o 25 . “ I got to Atlantic City in 1997 . It saying , ‘ Don’t call it Philadelphia . This is 39 . “ When I was in high school , the phot din / S wasn’t about food ; it was about money . New Jersey . ’ ” only place I ever went on vacation was the ra Graw ev People started to say they wanted better beach from Asbury Park on down lfurther Mc by . o restaurants . The past 20 years have been 32 . “ As an actor , there’s no retirement south . I also babysat for two lovely k.comcouples phot amazing there , they are a food destination plan , you hope you can continue working . in Long Beach Island ; I was an au pair rstocfor rphy now . People are demanding better things After being on such well - written shows the summer . I love it there ; it’s so Mubeautiful hutte m . now . You can’t get away with just a mediocre like Everybody Loves Raymond and The Mid - and has really gorgeous beaches . That eer / Swas ck.co cheesesteak . ” dle , I thought it was going to be difficult to a lot of fun . I’ve visited farms all over Sthe ersto Joe find something that was fresh and was well state from South Jersey to the north . uttI’m by Sh to 26 . “ In high school I used to go to written . ” interested in growing things and New Jersey pho din / r theCountryClubDiner after class almost farmers know how to grow so well , rafrom Sigle lev every day . But I’m told that it’s , sadly , no 33 . “ I don’t think ‘ Smooth ’ is the best tomatoes to peas and onions . I also ap.love by nl to longer around . We would also hang out in song I’ve ever written or the best song the Pine DuBarrens . ” pho on i the parking lot of the Wawa in Holly Ravine . he’s ever done , but it was the right Jovsong Alis n y I can’t even remember what we did — I and the right time . Obviously it was a big 40 . “ We eventually knew we owould b B oto c . think we would all just show up there and help for me and a big help for Carlos to help make this our home . Not only from aba ph I / 6 ldi then talk about what we should do . Very him connect with a new audience . [ The sports side , but from a people side . WPVWe’ve Cata f glamorous ! ” song ] is very special for those reasons . ” felt there were incredible people in s.South o gle esy Jersey . There was a certain feeling of Eacom - court hia 27 . “ A lot of times for me there’s a 34 . “ Honestly outside of Orlando , the munity that we really liked . Our kids went delp hoto subtlety when you hear someone tell a Jersey Shore in the summertime is one of to Eastern High School . … The ilaenvironment p ms Ph f story . I was at a dinner party once and this my favorite places . I went to college at Va - created in South Jersey for myself and liamy o Wil esy woman told a story , it was very interesting lencia and USF , and especially at USF three family was tremendous , and it served courtus Rick but it went nowhere . quarters of my class were from Philly and all well . We knew a long time ago . this hoto . com n I told her it was very interesting but Jersey . I always had a close connection to would be home for pus . ” stock am asked her if I could tell her how to tell it . the people up there . I love GrahJersey . ” utter . You need a great intro to draw n / Sheveryone tman in . 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